• Home
  • Gallery
  • Tips & Tricks
    • Portrait Tips & Tricks
    • Senior Year Tips & Tricks
    • Sorority Recruitment Tips & Tricks
    • Family and Newborn Tips & Tricks
    • “I Do” Tips & Tricks
    • For the Photographer- Tips & Tricks
  • Publications
  • Vendors
  • FAQs
  • The Process
  • Pricing
    • Session Prices
    • Graduation Announcements
  • Contact
  • Kind Words
  • Blog
    • Portraits
    • Seniors
    • Linked Up
    • Personal

Lauren Guy Photography

Tips & Tricks Tuesday | What Am I Supposed to Talk About at a Recruitment Party?

in Sorority Recruitment Tips & Tricks, Tips & Tricks on 06/08/19

One of my biggest fears going into college was not knowing what to talk about during sorority recruitment. The thought of having to strike up a memorable conversation with strangers that I thought were “judging me” had me quite stressed before recruitment even started. I didn’t know if I was supposed to lead the conversation or if they would.

I envisioned walking into a room of sorority girls and I was the one to walk up and strike up a conversation. HELLO…WAS I DELUSIONAL? The party was the complete opposite. A sorority member met me at the door as I walked through a tunnel of celebratory members and immediately started asking me questions about myself.

I’m sure you’re thinking…

WHAT ARE THEY GOING TO ASK ME? Well, I’m glad you asked!

These are “go-to” sorority recruitment questions from current members:

  • What is your major?
  • Where are you from?
  • What did you do this summer?
  • Where did you go to high school?
  • What were you involved in at school?
  • Why did you choose your university?
  • What dorm are you living in?
  • What activities are you interested in participating in?
  • What are you looking forward to most about being in a sorority and why?
  • What did you learn from being involved in __(insert activity)__ in high school?
  • What are you looking forward to the most in college?
  • What are your fears about starting college?

As you can tell, the conversation isn’t about your political or religious views or your biggest struggle in life. It is unbelievably casual conversation so they can get to know you!

Let me let you in on a secret….sorority members secretly hope that you ask them questions about themselves too.

Just like you’re having the same conversations all day, so are they. I remember LOVING when girls asked me about my major, my favorite movie, our philanthropy, and what my favorite part of being in a sorority was. The girls that end up in the pledge class were going to be my future friends and it was nice knowing that girls were just as interested in getting to know me as I was with them.

You want to make sure to keep the conversation positive and not complain about the heat, your feet hurting, or being tired. Trust me…they’re tired too! No one enjoys someone who is negative all the time, so keep it positive and light.

Going through recruitment as a freshman is stressful and hard, but being on the other side is just as stressful and exhausting. While you’re getting ready for the day, the sorority members are already in the chapter room, getting things ready for the day. When you go back to your dorm at the end of a long day, they stay and clean up and even come back that night.

With all that to say, keep the conversation going and ask them questions in return about their major, where they’re from, what they’re involved in, what they love about their sorority, etc.

It’s also important not to rehearse your answers. They just want to get to know you and what you’re interested in, so don’t regurgitate your written responses.

Keep it light and natural and everything will go smoothly!

 

Subscribe

« Tips & Tricks Tuesday | Sorority Recruitment Advice
PSHS Dance Officers | Plano, TX Senior Photography »

Oh, hi there!

Yep…I was THAT nerdy kid who brought 9 disposable cameras to a week-long summer camp and carried cameras in her purse because I wanted to capture every incredible moment that happened. Needless to say, I have always had a huge passion for photography! Read More…

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter
  • Vimeo

Senior Celebration Mini Sessions

Become an Insider

Instagram

Happy February ❤️🌹 Happy February ❤️🌹
This cold weather has me craving sunshine! It was This cold weather has me craving sunshine! It was over 100 degrees during this shoot but you would never know based off of Emily’s expression!
Portrait sessions should capture your personality Portrait sessions should capture your personality ❤️
Murals and bright colors= my favorite ❤️ Murals and bright colors= my favorite ❤️
There is something special about a new calendar ye There is something special about a new calendar year as a business owner. Every year, I make goals for my business and this year it is to travel more for shoots. This shoot in Joshua Tree from 2018 is still one of my favorite shoots to date. The bright colors, the styling, the desert… it’s so fun and special. I have a few spots on my bucket list that I can’t wait to mark off! I have my first big photography trip in a month and I can’t wait to share where I’m going!!
A jacket made of fresh flowers made by @lizziebees A jacket made of fresh flowers made by @lizziebeesflowershoppe?! YES PLEASE! A new year means new ideas. Who is ready to create something fabulous? 🙋🏻‍♀️
Follow on Instagram

Popular Posts

Boho Vibes| Styled Shoot | Dallas, TX Senior Photography

Valentines Day Shoot | Plano, TX Senior Photography

2019 LGP Seniors- A Year in Review

Tips & Tricks Tuesday | The Truth About Sorority Recruitment Photos

Back-2-School | Dallas, TX Senior Photographer

Anthropologie Summer Picnic | Plano, TX Senior Photography

As Seen On

Copyright © 2025 · glam theme by Restored 316

Copyright © 2025 · Glam Theme on Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in